Most of us face quite a lot of negativity quite often, no matter how positive we desire and try to be. It can be in the form of negative thoughts that you get in your head, or some negative comments from people around you, or just a vibe that you feel. While most of us cope up with it and do not let it affect us, some majorly fail and fall prey to it. 

    This Valentine’s Week, I thought that I should write a post that emphasises upon the fact that one must always spread love through positivity!! This post is very different from what I usually write about, but no matter what our sphere of work is, we need to be positive first so that we can succeed.

    Valentine’s Day is a lot more than being with the person you are dating and so on. It is about loving yourself, the way you are. And the once you are in love with yourself, no amount of negativity can affect you to the core.

    Here’s listing for you all some ways in which you can feel really good about who you are and FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF!! ❀

    Let’s get started!! 


    Life is full of up’s and down’s. One moment you may feel that you have got the best life ever, and the very next moment you are thrown off-guard with an enormous amount of hurdles standing in your way. However, all you need to do in such a situation is to keep moving, to keep moving forward. Don’t let any negativity pull you down.  Channel your energy in a positive direction and just keep going. 


    Our belief brings a hell lot of a difference. We need to be confident about the way we are and the things that we want to do in life. No matter what we are doing, we are gonna get some experience out of it as long as we trust ourselves. Situations may not always be in our favour but the experience will. So we need to believe in ourself that we can do it, and so we will! 


    Fear is a very negative aspect of our life and the more we let it grow, the more we get consumed into negativity. Deal with your fears, face them, and do not worry!! You might be afraid of a certain situation, and even after you face it, it might not turn out to be in your favour. But you can always chalk it up to experience and move on. And you know what? Your fear too will be far more less once you have walked through it and faced the consequences.

    #DO NOT CARE! 

    In this world, every time you want to move forward in life and do something for yourself, there are gonna be tons of people who pull you down with their negative vibes and comments. And sometimes, it really does affect you. Trust me, I have been there. But what I have learned is that we should not care at all about what people think or feel about something that we want to do. As long as we love it and we are confident about it, they are no one to hold us back. So, DO-NOT-CAREEEE! turn a deaf ear!! 


    This is something that really works in making you fall in love with yourself. You need to radiate positivity and appreciate the little things in life. Do not let out any sort of negativity, because, the ‘law of attraction’ does exist! The more you pass on good vibes, the more will good things happen to you. So well #goodvibesonly!! 

    Apart from all this, you may try doing certain things that helps you feel good and combats all the pessimism.

    •  Devote time to doing things that you love.  This may be anything. (In my case, it would be dancing, singing, reading and so many more.)
      • Spend time with people who give you good vibes; your loved ones. 
      • Dress up! Because, dressing up actually makes us feel good about ourselves. Also, bright hues cheers up your mood. 
      • Read a good and positive book. There are tons of books available out there which gives you a different perspective of life and hence gives you positive vibes.
      • Look into the mirror and mentally list out all the things that you feel is good in you. Focus on your positive traits.

        So that’s it for today everyone!! I hope you had a good time reading this post. My sole reason behind coming up with such a post was to stress upon the fact that we got to love ourselves first, because only then will we be able to be a better person and spread love! 

        Leave in your comments below!! You may also share with me your perspective of loving yourself and dealing with negativity!! I would love to know to about it. Also, let me know if I should write posts like this more often. 

        Lastly, stay tuned for some vogue-ish posts coming in your way, because vogue is a vibe in itself! Isn’t it? 

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        23 Comments Add yours

        1. Sara Rauste says:

          “DO-NOT-CAREEEE! turn a deaf ear!! ” that’s a great rhyme to repeat to oneself πŸ™‚

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          1. Definitely!! πŸ’œ

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        2. Me being an introvert girl and always complaining about my skin color …. πŸ‘†Those surely are the valuable points for me ….
          Thanks to you ..for this blog ..keep writing beautiful 😘

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          1. Thankyou so much!!❀ Be confident about yourself. Love yourself. You are beautiful the way you are. πŸ’œ


        3. Trisha Nandi says:

          Wonderful…. this blog is quite helpful.. 😍😚😊

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          1. Thankyou so much!!❀


        4. Shusruth says:

          Great one keep it up…😘

          Liked by 1 person

          1. Thankyou so much!❀


        5. Suvangi Adhikary says:

          Really outstanding…😍😍😍

          Liked by 2 people

          1. Thankyou so much!❀


        6. Beyoutiful says:

          Loved this girl, so inspiring! ❀

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          1. Thankyou soooo muchh!❀

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        7. Great post!! As someone who is probably twice your age, it’s awesome that you’ve figured out something that takes many people (me included) a lot longer! Happiness is a choice. I look forward to following you!

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          1. Thankyou so much!! It means a lot!! Only when we learn to love ourselves will we be able to learn the true value of happiness. So glad you liked it!! Have a great day.πŸ’œ

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        8. Loved this post! #donotcare is definitely something I need to live by lately! πŸ’–

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          1. Thankyou so much. I am so glad that yoy liked it!πŸ’œ We are at a point in this world where ‘not caring about what people say’ is something that is really necessary. We should believe in ourselves and not in what others have to say.🌼

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        9. Sapphire says:

          This post is so important! ❀

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          1. Thankyou so much!πŸ’œ


        10. Lovely post!❀ (I seriously needed some self-positivity and this helps). I mean, I used to get bullied at my old school for being bookish and introverted. Now that we’re all ‘older’ (13 isn’t exactly old . . . ) those ‘cool’ people just prefer the taunting and jeering behind my back. I was a bit depressed and I honestly tried to change, but no. I don’t care anymore. I have a feeling your tips will be a good boost to my self-esteemπŸ™‚

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          1. I can totally relate with you given I am an ambivert and I take quite some time before getting along with people, especially when I was in school. I was bookish as well which made some of my classmates bully me even more. But gradually, I realised that paying attention to them will only pull me down!!
            I am so proud of you that you stopped paying heed to all of them and all that they have to say! I can tell that you are a really sweet and talented girl. Way to gooooo!πŸ’œπŸ’œ
            Thankyou for reading my post. And all the best for your exams!πŸ˜„

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        11. Reblogged this on Vogue & Vibes – Anushka Hazra and commented:

          Hey everyone!Here’s sharing with you all a post dedicated to Self-Love and Positivity, that I had put up on Valentine’s day last year, because Valentine’s Day is a lot more than being with the person you are dating and romance. It is about loving yourself, the way you are and becoming your own valentine first!

          This Valentine’s Day love and pamper yourself more than anyone else. πŸ™‚


        12. Zohra says:

          I think I was in need of something like this. Thank you ❀


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